Why You Should Get a Lawyer if the Possibility of a Divorce Exists!

Getting divorced is a frustrating and expensive time. First you must try to find the right lawyer who is tough and experienced and who provides personal service including returning your calls promptly. Then you must chase your Ex to sign paperwork if the divorce is not contested! It's HARD, frustrating and expensive.

Then you must deal with heartache, difficulty in concentrating and the inevitable pain caused by divorce. I am certain you know what I mean.

"Get a lawyer" is often the first thing that someone facing divorce is advised by family and friends.

For the person whose life has just gone off track, who wants more than anything to get back to "life as usual," that advice can seem cold. The reality is that legal advice and help is critical even if all it involves is a preliminary consultation.

Contacting a lawyer should not signal a bloody war between spouses but rather to protect each person's interests at a very stressful and emotional time. Yet a bloody signal is almost invariably made and all too often when there are children.

Here's what ONE CLIENT wrote regarding the advice to newcomers to RETAIN A LAWYER. "I am reconciled with my husband." That said, my first advice is still usually "get a lawyer-know, your rights and responsibilities."

The reason for this is that many people who wind up with lawyer are not necessarily getting divorced -- they are being divorced. "Can you forgive him or her" is irrelevant when the other spouse doesn't give a damn if you forgive them, beg, plead, crawl or just go away and die.

"When we were first starting our divorce, I was unemployed, but we had savings, I had the house, and I knew I would get a job. I wasn't worried about being homeless or starving, or any of the things that seem to traumatize people at the beginning of this process. "

Divorce is an emotional, thought-provoking time in people's lives, and unfortunately, that is usually NOT the best time to be making decisions that could have life-long consequences. Unfortunately, that is how this process works.

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The Law Offices of Toronto divorce lawyer Irving Solnik was established in 1957 and it has earned a solid reputation for providing the highest quality family law services, making Irving Solnik arguably the finest divorce lawyer in Toronto.

When you need a no-nonsense fearless and one of the best Toronto divorce lawyers to resolve your family law problems, call (416) 932-8509 and talk to Irving Solnik personally at no cost or obligation!

Our office is committed to making a positive difference in the lives and future of all those seeking to resolve family law issues within the legal system in Ontario.

We hope that this website can serve as a tool to help you make the appropriate choice for legal representation as you seek to resolve whatever family issues challenge you or your loved one.

So much is at stake when irreconcilable differences arise between husband and wife, common law partners, and family members: stability, history, trust, possessions and even lifestyle.

While we do not like to consider that animosity may ever exist between family members we are close to, circumstances do arise that threaten to undermine the security we find in our familial relationships.

At the law offices of Toronto divorce lawyer Irving Solnik Professional Corporation, we practice the following areas of family law: 

• Divorce and Grounds for divorce
• Contested And Uncontested Divorce
• Separation Agreements
• Annulment
• Child Custody
• Child Abduction
• Access Agreements
• Child Support
• Spousal Support
• Property Disputes and Division
• Equalization of Assets
• Marriage Agreements-Prenuptials
• Cohabitation Contracts
• Blocks To Divorce
• Block Prevention of Access To Children
• Appeals
• Case Conferences
• Motions
• Trials, Motions And Appeals
• Trials & Appeals
• Children Aid Societies
• Common Law Partners
• Spousal And Child Abuse
• Childrens Lawyer
• Hague Convention
• All Other Divorce Related Matters

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Since it is a legal process that can occur totally without someone's consent, having a third party who is emotionally neutral but legally advocating for you can make worlds of difference.

It takes two people to make or save a marriage -- it only takes one to get a divorce. Many times, the spouse who has asked for the divorce has already done their emotional separating, their "grieving" for the end of the marriage, and their research on just how to get out.

The spouse that gets the surprise "I want a divorce" starts out already behind the 8-ball.

When people come here asking, "What will happen to me?", "Can he throw me out of my house?", "Can she take my kids away from me?" Can he keep everything because I haven't worked outside the home in 15 years?" Then my first advice will still be "Get a lawyer." Reconciliation, counseling, etc. can happen at any point in the process, but the time to protect yourself now is to cover your unprotected behind, your a$, before you get frostbite.

When you get a lawyer, retain the right one-a lawyer who is tough and experienced and who always does whatever it takes, is fearless, indefatigable and a formidable opponent.

Need I say more? Call me to make an appointment for a free consultation.

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